Are you embarrassed about masturbating

[PeterWatson]

If it was either my wife or my son, yes I would be embarrassed and maybe ashamed too.

So more than one of us would be embarrassed or uncomfortable if our wives walked in while we were masturbating. I find this interesting as your wife should be someone who knows you best, accepts you as you are, and encourges and loves you unconditionally. At least, in a perfect world. Since masturbation is such a natural part of the human condition, especially for males, and wives know this, why should they be so put off by it. Would they be put off if they walked in while we were eating a sandwich? Masturbating and eating are similar for men. They are both necessary and satisfying. Both bring joy to our lives and satisfy a deep inescapable need.

I envy the guys whose wives accept this fact and even suggest that their husbands go and masturbate when they are feeling stressed or horney and there is no time or opportunity for sex as a couple. Imagine, "Hi honey. I ran across a video that I think you will really enjoy masturbating to. I emailed you the link. Let me know what you thought after you finish cumming. Love you." That would be a great relationship, at least on one level.

[Don Williams]

. . . So more than one of us would be embarrassed or uncomfortable if our wives walked in while we were masturbating. I find this interesting as your wife should be someone who knows you best, accepts you as you are, and encourges and loves you unconditionally.

Chris Roc said it best. "Only women, children, and DOGS are loved, unconditionally." The sooner men come to terms with that, the easier our lives will be.

[BrokenQuill]

I think I would want to die from embarrassment.

(despite my profile picture)

I understand the feeling, but why? Lets say it was the 35 year old female neighbour from next door. She opens the door and sees you there doing what she knows her husband does also. After getting an eyeful, she looks down, appologizes without great embarrassment herself for walking in on you, and backs out of the bathroom closing the door behind her.

Now she has seen you, she knows what you were doing, and she has left. Could you finish jerking off? Why do you feel embarrassed for doing something that is natural and most people do it, and how would you feel 20 minutes later when you came face to face with her in the backyard?

Why are we so ashamed of masturbating?

Who in this group would be just fine with the situation described above and have a laugh with the neighbour 20 minutes later when seeing her in the back yard? Who would be avoiding her because the situation would be so awkward. I think I would try to just pretend it didn't happen and hope she did likewise.

Given the scenario you mention above Peter, I have to say that there is an element that turns me on. The knowing look from a beautiful and younger person add to the thrill.

I would still be initially, hugely embarrassed, but I guess I should have locked the door if I really wanted privacy. The thought of a direct family member walking in on me still curls my toes though!

[Jimfix44]

I’m not embarrassed. Wouldn’t want my kids to catch. I have been caught a few times.
I just remember that whoever catches you most like jacks off also.

[Blindboxone]

I love to go to the adult arcade and masterbate with the door open. I like the feeling of being watched by other men while they rub their cocks and I will happily ejaculate in someone’s mouth if they are willing to join me. More often than not I’m nutting down someone’s throat. It’s the greatest thrill.

Occasionally I’ll masterbate in front of my wife. Maybe pull my cock out of her mouth and stroke it I front of her while her pussy throbs. She likes to watch me jerk off and cum all over her tits. She rubs my cum into her skin like lotion afterward. This is a picture she took right after I jizzed on her chest.

[SUBBI]

I love to go to the adult arcade and masterbate with the door open. I like the feeling of being watched by other men while they rub their cocks and I will happily ejaculate in someone’s mouth if they are willing to join me. More often than not I’m nutting down someone’s throat. It’s the greatest thrill.

Occasionally I’ll masterbate in front of my wife. Maybe pull my cock out of her mouth and stroke it I front of her while her pussy throbs. She likes to watch me jerk off and cum all over her tits. She rubs my cum into her skin like lotion afterward. This is a picture she took right after I jizzed on her chest.

Hope you don't mind me saying she is gorgeous! What a pair!! Lucky guy

[Don Williams]

I love to go to the adult arcade and masterbate with the door open.

My sense of embarrassment is leaving me.

I have this favored cruising area that I really enjoy, because of the scenery, the seclusion, and the activity. The last time I went, I really felt compelled to open my pants and stroke my hard cock, as I hiked, after watching this couple fuck, for an audience. I didn't do it, of course, but I've never felt so turned on at the thought. Instead, I stroked it thorough my pants, while I walked. Just because of the way I was turned on, I know the day will come, soon, when I will give in. I also know that, in a matter of a few minutes, someone will be on his knees taking my cock into his mouth, for a crowd to see. I'm getting turned on, just typing abut it.

If I do take this walk, I'll snap a photo . . . not necessarily of it being sucked, but of it being let out to breathe. If I get consent. I'll take a shot of it being sucked.

[J69Lw37m]

Great post! I jacked off at an ABS hoping a man would come down the dark hall and see me. I was going to tell him "please come in and give me your cock. I'll suck it really nice and make you cum in my mouth" It was before noon and no one showed up to feed me. I decided to cum in the palm of my left hand and eat it like I always do, which I did. I was really turned on by what I did.

I go to a gay bathhouse to play, and stay naked the whole time I'm there and most men do too. I love sucking dick in front of bi or gay men. Not only do they see how much I love it, but can see and hear the man cum in my mouth which is fiery hot to me. Many times another man stands above me ( I like to give blow jobs on my knees) after watching and I'll suck his dick too. Not easy for a married man like me to get there. When I do, I suck off as many men as possible. I am so glad I have that place to go to for cock. I never knew I would love being seen having gay sex but I do.

[Handeguy]

Yes, I would be embarrassed. But in a perfect (fantasy) world, it would be much more acceptable. Maybe something like a woman breast feeding; not something everyone wants to do or see someone else do out in the open, but also not seen as something shameful in any way.

[Sparky74]

Definitely be embarrassed but at the same time idea of audience does excite me, I know if it was the wife she Definitely would not be to impressed.